(Seattle, WA) -- It's Valentine's Day, and a Seattle-based relationship therapist has suggestions for improving your romantic relationships. Jessa Zimmerman says you first need to think beyond gifts. Zimmerman says many people have trouble talking about things that are putting stress on their marriages, so this might be a good time to see a therapist, invest in some self-help books or get into some useful workshops. She also says people need to prioritize their relationships, commit to greater honesty and be their partner's biggest advocate.